Wait And Take: 2 Man Positions
People build their lives and settle in life. And they do it very differently: someone who lives in a beautiful mansion overlooking the sea and someone in a one-room apartment overlooking the trash. Of course, it can be luck, fate, or coincidence. But still, the main reason for the different quality of life is not all of the above circumstances, but some personality traits due to which this ability appears – to attract money, achieve success, realize oneself and, in general, arrange one’s life for oneself.
People with a Wait attitude
Some people choose to let others make decisions for them. It is because they think that someone else will always be there to give them what they want. But this way of living leads to disappointment because people are not always understanding or sensitive. And sometimes, people feel angry at others who are not quick-witted or caring enough. People with a Wait attitude tend to build relationships with others in a way that is not very honest. They do not say what they want directly. Instead, they expect the other person to guess what they want. These people often do not even know what they want themselves. You don’t have to make a decision, and you don’t have to be responsible for it. But if you don’t decide, you can’t choose.
People with a Take attitude
They try to make their lives better. They know what they want and what they can do. So they have to take opportunities when they see them. And they like that they can choose for themselves. They know that other people cannot choose better for them than they can choose for themselves. So they try to be responsible and make good choices. They also try to have good relationships with other people and their lives.
How to transform from the Wait position to the Take position?
Think before you act. It is important to think about the consequences of your actions and take responsibility for them.
Believe in yourself and develop self-confidence. Knowing that you have control over your life can help you make decisions confidently and take action without fear.
Set goals and stick to them. Goals give you something to work towards and help keep you motivated.
Take risks and be willing to fail. Risk-taking is a part of life, and it can lead to great rewards if you learn from your mistakes and persevere.
Build relationships with people who can support you in taking action and hold yourself accountable for achieving your goals.
Take small steps, and don’t be afraid to move forward. Even the least progress is something to be proud of, and it can help you keep going.
Celebrate your successes and learn from your failures. Knowing what works for you will help you take further action and reach your goals faster.